June 2nd, 2004, 10:49 PM
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Im stuck on this girl. I think about her all the time. Ive tried liking other girls, but they just arnt her. She has every quality i want in a women. She also has the qualities that i dont have that want. She is perfect... funny, classy, smart, beautiful... everything.
In december i thought i was over her. I lied to myself over and over... and i realize a year after i fell for her, im worse than before.
This isnt a new girl... its still sam. the sam i see almost everyday... the sam thats my best friend, that i can tell anything. the sam that understands me... the sam that is nothing more, and never can be.
either way its a double edged sword. i dont see her... i fell real low. i see her... but cant have her... i feel the same or worse. and even if i could have her by some miracle... i would be skeptic and doubtful of the whole thing.
I need to stop liking her. I dont know how... ive tried other girls, not talking to her, not seeing her.... nothing works.
I know my problem is nothing compared to the rest here... but you are the only listening ears.
Blaze
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June 2nd, 2004, 10:51 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Healdsburg, CA
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One word: Time. 
Sorry kiddo. There's no easy fix for a broken heart. It takes time to get over a special girl. Took me ages to get over my first love.
Last edited by Atomic Rooster : June 2nd, 2004 at 10:53 PM.
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June 2nd, 2004, 10:58 PM
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I know my problem is nothing compared to the rest here...
Find one that comes close and try to build a relationship. Suffering by yourself will only delay getting over it. 
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June 2nd, 2004, 11:03 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: BrisVegas, Australia
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Deju vu here. And more recent than the previous Sam threads.  Tobu has a similar problem. You are not alone in this, Blaze.
Dunno what to suggest. Hate to see you lose a friend, but also hate to see you mooning about like a love-struck hound. 
Talking to her is the only think I can suggest; always was my only suggestion, really.
Sorry if that's no help.
Cheers
Mick
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June 2nd, 2004, 11:29 PM
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June 2nd, 2004, 11:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Whir Hate her. | Is that a personal opinion or a recommendation, Whir?  
Cheers
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June 2nd, 2004, 11:41 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Norfolk, VA
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Whatever you do, save these threads on your hard drive, so that 5 years from now you can look back and say, "wow, much ado about nothing."
cheer up. We have all had first crushes, and all of us have moved on. | |
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June 2nd, 2004, 11:46 PM
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| | Father V2.0
Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Mexicali, Mexico
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Originally Posted by Blazer06 She is perfect... funny, classy, smart, beautiful... everything. |
Dang..... now you try to dump her because that.....
Well dude take some time.... take a new hobbie.... it will help you stay focused on other things instead of thinking on her | |
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June 3rd, 2004, 12:04 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: outside New Orleans
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Take time for yourself.........
Take time to think........
Take time to understand.........
Take some time for you and understand that you must be complete and happy on your own........
Take some more time to be happy....
Take some time to cry.....
Take some time to be sad.......
Take some time to take stock of why you feel this way....
Take time and invest in yourself......
Take some time to just simply love yourself and enjoy the qualities you have.....
just take some time..... | |
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June 3rd, 2004, 12:09 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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Yes, new hobby.
I work out...when I run, it clears my mind. I'm breaking my body so much that there is nothign else I can focus on . When I finish, I'm too busy thanking God that I didn't die and made it back (seriously). All of that clears my head, for at least 12-24hrs 
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