Thread: Well, she left
September 2nd, 2004, 03:26 AM #1
Well, she left
For those of you who keep track of my personal life (yea, right) I provide another update.
My best friend turned g/f just left 2 days ago for New Jersey for college. I am in school in California.
We knew if would happen, but we got together anyway, and as a result it was the best summer of my life. I think it is better to have loved and lost...
Well, my friends are all saying I'm single now and can look at other people, but I only find myself compairing them to her.
Well, we agreed to be friends forever, and she will back for Christmas
Thanks for listening.Abit AW9D-Max | E6300 | XP-120 | Panaflow 120mm | 2x 1GB G.Skill DDR2-800 | BFG 8800GT | Corsair 650w
September 2nd, 2004, 05:08 AM #2
Hey don't feel too bad. Happened to me too. Except I'm now in Alaska and she is in Washington. I guess you could say we are a little closer than you and your girlfriend. But I know what you feel. Now if only the snow would start flying so xmas would come sooner.
September 2nd, 2004, 05:18 AM #3
Ha, I wouldn't be looking at other women at all. There's no way.
September 2nd, 2004, 09:38 AM #4
Give it 3 months or so before you can be open to new posibilities.
September 2nd, 2004, 11:14 AM #5
Absence makes the heart grow fonder...
She sounds like someone who might be worth waiting around for. Unless you're an incredibly needy person who has to be dating someone all the time, I'd write her letters, call her weekly, be her best friend even from a distance - and if she feels the same way about you - your Christmas might even be better than your summer!
Definately give it some time before running out and finding someone to replace her if you really feel strongly about her.
September 2nd, 2004, 11:47 AM #6
There are two schools of thought. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" versus "Out of sight, out of mind".
I think it revolves around expectations and you need to be open with her about this. If both of you are willing to commit to a long-term, long-distance relationship, maybe it will work. Otherwise, both of you should be willing to put the commitment aside. If your relationship survives, you know it was strong from the start.
September 2nd, 2004, 12:11 PM #7
Ill say dont rush yourself to get another couple if you feel a little lonely, or because your friends thiks you need another.
I have a similar opionion as osprey4, Ill say try to make it happen and when December arrives both of you will know if the relationship can continue or not.someone is more skilled than you!
September 2nd, 2004, 06:55 PM #8
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I agree. You've only got one thing to lose if you wait, and everything to gain.
Perhaps you'll be one of the lucky ones who finds true love, and lasting love in her, and she in you.
You'll find out soon enough. Besides, Christmas isn't all that far away if you think about it.this post contains small bits of intelligence culminating to the appearance of wisdom.
September 2nd, 2004, 08:14 PM #9
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Well, you're pretty young. Girls change a LOT (personality-wise) between eighteen and twenty four or so...especially girls that go to college. So try to keep that in mind.
Best of luck!
September 2nd, 2004, 11:13 PM #10
Good point, Geeraff, and I am wondering how much and exactly WHAT changes?Abit AW9D-Max | E6300 | XP-120 | Panaflow 120mm | 2x 1GB G.Skill DDR2-800 | BFG 8800GT | Corsair 650w
September 3rd, 2004, 12:57 AM #11
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Call me old fashion, but I do not understand this world of thought, today
I thought "Love" came first, not careers, or school
But hay, to each his own.
True "Love" never parts, it grows together. And, stays together.
And nothing and noone, can make it split.
Did someone mention Love?
September 3rd, 2004, 01:15 AM #12
Call me rude, but love doesn't pay the bills.Abit AW9D-Max | E6300 | XP-120 | Panaflow 120mm | 2x 1GB G.Skill DDR2-800 | BFG 8800GT | Corsair 650w
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