Like this girl (Yes another girl/guy relationship thread) need opinion help with girl

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nahh.....becuz with the last girl i liked, she told me she just wanted to be friends, so i just took it and left it the way it was, so no matter what she says (or thinks) ill take it, even if i take it hard, ill still take it, and plus being friends wouldnt be too bad considering we hardly kno eachother, and the last girl i liked, we hardly knew eachtoher, so becoming friends was a good thing.

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hmm....question....would asking Sarah "would you like to come and see such and such with me - I hear its a really good film... and maybe we could grab a bite to eat or something after" work out well?

sounds pretty good to me....what you think?

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hmm....question....would asking Sarah "would you like to come and see such and such with me - I hear its a really good film... and maybe we could grab a bite to eat or something after" work out well?

sounds pretty good to me....what you think?

I say go for it. You feel confident with that and those are your words.

Sarah will love it.

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kk....well me and one of Sarah's closest friends (natasha) made up this plan......they're going to their friends house tonight, and natasha will have her cellhpone....and she told me to clal her on that...and she;d pass her cellphone over to sarah...and then i could ask her if she'd like to go see blah blah with and maybe get somethin to eat afterwards

[originel]

This is just me, but things like this are better done in person. If it's already planned though, go for it.

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yea i kno...i should probably do it in person.....and i've got 3 hours or so to decide whether to call or do it in person......but if i dont call i'll probably get flamed by like 5 ppl asking why i dint call...seing as stuff like this usually gets around faster then me making the call.....lol

[John Prophet]

why not just speak to her some first, lol

"hey sarah, whats up?"

etc

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why not just speak to her some first, lol

"hey sarah, whats up?"

etc

yea i could do that too....justo so many different choices on what to do...and so many variables that can alter what happens....ahhh ....lol

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well...i think i've decided...and ill make the call within 45 minutes or so

[John Prophet]

if you just decide to chit chat then there is no planning involved...

I dont think id want to ask out a girl the first time I spoke to her...better off to just chat a couple times etc to feel the situation out

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oh...but there's prolly somthing big i've left out......is that we've talked to eachother before....granted it wasnt what I would call a long conversation...but it was still some small talk....so we'll see

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ok...i did it guys...i called her about an hour ago...and here's the lowdown of what happened
well....at first when i phone heather picked up the phone for some reason...and we talked for about 5 minutes....she asked me questions...like what was i guna say....and if i thought Sarah was hot and w/e.....and then they had to find her.....and they put her on....and we talked...and i asked her...and shes like i dono...so someone else comes on and asks what she said and im like she said i dono....and thne they put her back on....and i ask her whatsup...and hows shannon and laurelle party going...and shes says its good...and im like good....and then she put tasha on...and tasha said that sarah was too shy to say yes...and that sarah would call me this week to set it all up

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She is way too shy. How hard is it to just say "yes" on the phone. Wow.

[#43 fan]

Confidence...
That's it, as soon as I see the girl I like, I'll ask her out (assuming her parents aren't there). Can use your line Switch?
If I see her w/ her parents, just say hi? Help me!!

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Confidence...
That's it, as soon as I see the girl I like, I'll ask her out (assuming her parents aren't there). Can use your line Switch?
If I see her w/ her parents, just say hi? Help me!!

You sort of lost me here. But ok.

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use my lines...i dont care..they aint copyrighted...and im not guna sue u...just dont make an idiot out of urself...good luck to u!

[#43 fan]

Thanks man, maybe I stole your luck.

[John Prophet]

I think you did ok lil brother, the hard part is over!

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All this talk is making me think about bumping my girl thread. Although I don't have much positive to say. Although I still like Hailey, I'm pretty sure I'm making the right choice by not asking her out. This will make more sense if I do bump it with an update.
I just need motivation to do so. :shrug: I need some coffee.

[#43 fan]

Coffee:the rejuvenator.