wishin i could edit my aol profile

[UghhIneedHELP]

i'm new to this site please bare with me....
I am soo computer challenged... but i've been researching how to edit my aol profile... i just recently created another screenname so i'm trying to setup my profile. problems i'm running into n can't fix are as follows........ 1- i keep gettin an error message when trying to add my photo to my profile.....(i can add pics to my albums n even other screenname but keep gettin error message when i try to add my pic to my new profile)
2- i'm trying to change the background on my profile i select theme n there are not any choices for me to choose from
3-i discovered on the top of my profile my "real" name appears i'ver researched this its called my display name not the name i enter under the privacy settings how do i change it??
ughh! i know i'm asking a lot i'd appreciate any help i can get i'm getting really frustrated!

[GroundZero3]

What version of AOL are you using? What error are you getting when you try to add a new pic?

[UghhIneedHELP]

i was using 9.0 i've since upgraded to 9.1 but i'm still getting the same error message....
(An error has occurred while uploading your file. Please ensure you are using a valid image file.)
when i open my file the whole (dont know what u call it) but address to the pic doesnt load... only on that part i can copy n paste it n it still wont work... n i can load the same pic on a diff profile n it will work... so i know its a valid address (well pic thingy) lol sorry i dont know what ur suppose to call it... i did finally get my theme (background) on my profile loaded yeaaaa me lolol
** i do have another question.... if anyone knows how u change the color of the headings on ur aol profile ... thanks