Well in the interest of giving some future person the answer, here's what I found that is quite simple!
All you need to do is use the split( String ,delimmeter ) command and it will automatically take away the comma and space and place the values into an array.
So going off the above example of 11, 12, 13 I would do this:
arrayNum = split(Request("poitem"), ", ")
This creates the array! Then you just iterate through it like you would any other collection and you're good to go!